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Chemistry Counts
I decided to address the topic of sexual chemistry this week because I often have Stiletto U students who don't know, or who are reluctant to recognize the importance of chemistry between themselves and a potential or current partner.
So what is sexual chemistry?
Sexual chemistry is that undeniable attraction that is felt on an unspoken level between two people, even before any type of relationship has started. You know that delicious feeling you get towards someone who makes you twirl your hair and bite your lip. It's that exchange of energy that makes you feel giddy and light and has you daydreaming about what he's like in bed while he's trying to patiently explain to you the difference between a lager and an ale.
There is no denying that sex between two people with great chemistry is exhilarating. Lovers with red-hot chemistry tend to respond to each other with amazing intensity, and are in the moment with each other, enjoying every minute of the experience mind AND body. Great sexual chemistry ebbs and flows in time but the attraction remains constant.
But let's not forget that sexual chemistry also encompasses the compatibility of two people once they're actually having sex. And like most things, the way women and men look at sexual chemistry can be very different. Most women tend to see it as a foundation upon which to build a relationship, while men are more hard wired to look at great chemistry as the predictor of steamy sex. And women are much more likely than men to connect sexual chemistry with love.
Bottom line: Sexual chemistry is vital in keeping a relationship strong and viable. At the same time there are levels of intensity, all which are fine as long as they match your lover's...in other words, as long as you are sexually compatible in your chemical reaction to each other firing up the love lab should not be a problem.
Here are two tips on how to take a quick chemistry check during your date (wait until toward the end).
1. While you're standing together waiting in line for your car or at the coat check, take the opportunity to invade your date's personal body space for a quick moment. Subtly move in close and gauge their reaction. Do they lean away or take a step back? If so, they aren't quite feeling you yet. But if they stand firm or even move into you, chemistry is most definitely bubbling!
2. What are your lips telling you? If you've spent several hours together and your lips aren't conferring with your brain wondering what it would be like to kiss, your chemistry levels might be a tad low. You should be curious, but if you're not, it's still not a deal breaker this early in the game. But, if time goes by and you're still not feeling the urge, a great friendship may be all that's in your future.
I decided to address the topic of sexual chemistry this week because I often have Stiletto U students who don't know, or who are reluctant to recognize the importance of chemistry between themselves and a potential or current partner.
So what is sexual chemistry?
Sexual chemistry is that undeniable attraction that is felt on an unspoken level between two people, even before any type of relationship has started. You know that delicious feeling you get towards someone who makes you twirl your hair and bite your lip. It's that exchange of energy that makes you feel giddy and light and has you daydreaming about what he's like in bed while he's trying to patiently explain to you the difference between a lager and an ale.
There is no denying that sex between two people with great chemistry is exhilarating. Lovers with red-hot chemistry tend to respond to each other with amazing intensity, and are in the moment with each other, enjoying every minute of the experience mind AND body. Great sexual chemistry ebbs and flows in time but the attraction remains constant.
But let's not forget that sexual chemistry also encompasses the compatibility of two people once they're actually having sex. And like most things, the way women and men look at sexual chemistry can be very different. Most women tend to see it as a foundation upon which to build a relationship, while men are more hard wired to look at great chemistry as the predictor of steamy sex. And women are much more likely than men to connect sexual chemistry with love.
Bottom line: Sexual chemistry is vital in keeping a relationship strong and viable. At the same time there are levels of intensity, all which are fine as long as they match your lover's...in other words, as long as you are sexually compatible in your chemical reaction to each other firing up the love lab should not be a problem.
Here are two tips on how to take a quick chemistry check during your date (wait until toward the end).
1. While you're standing together waiting in line for your car or at the coat check, take the opportunity to invade your date's personal body space for a quick moment. Subtly move in close and gauge their reaction. Do they lean away or take a step back? If so, they aren't quite feeling you yet. But if they stand firm or even move into you, chemistry is most definitely bubbling!
2. What are your lips telling you? If you've spent several hours together and your lips aren't conferring with your brain wondering what it would be like to kiss, your chemistry levels might be a tad low. You should be curious, but if you're not, it's still not a deal breaker this early in the game. But, if time goes by and you're still not feeling the urge, a great friendship may be all that's in your future.
Consider this...
Lori Bryant-Woolridge is a sensuality coach and advocate for healthy, sensual lifestyles. An Emmy award-winning writer, she has authored three best selling novels.
