Episode 6
Parrish heads to a party in Harlem to meet his date Manale, a French model, courtesy of Dani. However, he gets his hands full with a roomful of eccentric Parisians.
You Versus Your Guy: It's On!

Apparently, the sexiest couples try to beat each other's pants off, literally. Turns out that pitting yourself against your guy can boost attraction, add chemistry, and lead to a hotter sex life.

"Competition increases libido-boosting testosterone and the feel-good chemical dopamine--both of which fuel arousal and spark interest in your spouse," says Scott Haltzman, M.D., author of The Secrets of Happy Families. "Friendly face-offs increase bonding, because men and women interpret that competitive rush as a connection to their partner."

For those in new relationships, I think making sexy bets is a fun way to keep things fun and exciting, and for those in long-term relationships, a little good natured gaming helps keep things fresh and the sexual tension popping between you two.  So here are a few suggested ideas to heat up the competition in your household. 
Professional Sports.  There isn't a guy alive who isn't into at least one sport, and most are into several, so this gives you plenty of opportunity not only to share one of his interests but to also garner big girlfriend points doing so.  You can decide to make small wagers on every scoring opportunity within the games, or make it winner take all based on the final score.
Board/Card Games: Board games offer you the chance to stop being a spectator and become a player.  They also afford you the opportunity to alter the rules to your sexy benefit.  Think about a friendly game of strip poker, chess or checkers.  Are you in a long-distance relationship? Playing Words with Friends and other online games are perfect.
Miniature Golf/Bowling: Play to pay games are another opportunity to show off your athletic skills (or not) and have fun in a friendly competitive way. Who doesn't love a quick game one-on-one?  Instead of playing H.O.R.S.E., make up your own sexy acronym.  Pull out your bowling ball or putter and up the ante with every hole-in-one or strike.

The basic rules are simple: If you are a new couple, keep the stakes low, fun, like winner picks the next movie you see or gets a five-minute back rub. If your relationship has become physical payoff can certainly be more lust-filled.  Just make sure that all wagers are mutually-agreed upon as well as beneficial to both parties! 

Need a little inspiration?  Read Dare to be Seduced by Eden Davis. Winning and losing bets to a sexy stranger has the main character happily caught up in a web of lust and love, sex and seduction. You'll get plenty of ideas for bets (and maybe even some hot wager ideas).
Consider this...
Lori Bryant-Woolridge is a sensuality coach and advocate for healthy, sensual lifestyles. An Emmy award-winning writer, she has authored three best selling novels.
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